start from here
We spend most of our days striving for and working towards some distant someday that we’re convinced is just over the horizon. We put off our own access to the good, the true, and the beautiful, hoping to one day hustle our way into wholeness. As if peace of mind is something we must work to deserve. As if generosity, grace, and self-care must be earned. As if balance and contentment only come in sizes that we have to grind ourselves down to fit into.
But what if somewhere along the way we got it all backwards?
What if we “start from sanity”, as Oliver Burkeman says? What if we lead with meaning, acceptance, and satisfaction as given. As a general premise rather than as an achievement. Not a finish line, or a prize, or a trophy, but as the place from which we begin our every decision and movement.
Your work, your art, your making; it doesn’t require you to be perfected, it only needs you to be present. To be willing and receptive. It doesn’t require accomplishments or notoriety. It only asks you to show up reliably. To see the page, the canvas, and the studio as a life already rife with meaningfulness and sanity. That it is always an enacted and embodied testament to how ‘enough’ we already are and can be.
It isn’t a far-off reward. It’s a posture. A practice. A way of holding yourself and the world gently. It’s never been something you needed to earn. It’s always been there ready, available, and waiting.
May you always start from your enough-ness and never from what you’re lacking.
May you practice peace within the ordinary.
May your heart always know the texture of its own grace and generosity.
In case no one’s told you today, I love you with all my everything.
***special thanks to Kimberly Warner for inviting me to sit in on her “Writing the Unfixed Life” session that inspired two of the collages above: “something that defies naming” and “artifacts of perception”
P.S. I’m hosting a virtual meet-up with my paid subscribers today, 2/15 at 2pm EST. You can find the link for it here.
P.P.S. - I have the tremendous honor of being a part of a joint exhibition with Ade at Punch Gallery in Thorp, WA. the gallery was kind enough to send a few photos of the show.














Love it when a new word fits into my “unfixed” repertoire. “Enoughness” is the perfect. I see it like a soft, grandmotherly embrace around unfixed. ❤️
Thank you for the reminder. ♡